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​လိင္​အ​ဂၤါ​ခ်င္း​ ​ထိုး​သြင္း​ထိ​ေတြ႕​မႈ​ ​မ​ပါဝင္​ေသာ္ လိင္ဆက္ဆံျခင္း

​လိင္ ​အ​ဂၤါ​ခ်င္း​ ​ထိုး​သြင္း​ထိ​ေတြ႕​မႈ​ ​မ​ပါဝင္​ေသာ္ လိင္ဆက္ဆံျခင္း

               လိင္ ​သာ​ယာ​မႈ​ကို​ ​ရွာ​ေဖြ​ရာ​တြင္​ ​စံု​တြဲ​မ်ား​အ​ေန​ႏွင့္​ ​မ​အ​ဂၤါ​အ​တြင္း​ ​ဖို​အ​ဂၤါ​ကို​ ​ထိုး​သြင္း​ျခင္း​ထက္​ ​ပို​မို​အ​ႏွစ္​သာ​ရ​ရွိ​ေသာ​ ​အ​ဓိ​ပၸါယ္​ကို​ ​ရွာ​ေဖြ​သင့္​ေၾကာင္း​ ​လိင္​က်န္း​မာ​ေရး​ ​ပ​ညာ​ရွင္​မ်ား​က​ ​တိုက္​တြန္း​ေျပာ​ၾကား​သြား​သည္​။

​              ​သို့​ေသာ္​လည္း​ ​အ​မ်ား​စု​သည္​ ​လိင္​မႈ​ကိ​စၥ​ဆို​လ်င္​ ​ယင္း​ထိုး​သြင္း​မႈ​ကို​သာ​ ​အ​ေလး​ထား​ ​ျမင္​ေယာင္​ေန​ေၾကာင္း​ ​စ​ကၤာ​ပူ​နိုင္ငံ​၏​ ​နာ​မည္​ႀကီး​ ​လိင္​ပ​ညာ​ေပး​ဌာ​န​ Eros​ Coaching​မွ​ ​ေဒါက္​တာ​မာ​သာ​လီ​က​ ​ေျပာ​ၾကား​ခဲ့​သည္​။​ ​အ​မ်ိဳး​သား​အ​မ်ား​စု​သည္​ ​မိ​မိ​၏​ ​လိင္​ဆက္​ဆံ​ဖက္​အ​ေန​ႏွင့္​ ​လိင္​တံ​မာ​ေက်ာ​သန္​မာ​ေန​ျခင္း​ျဖင့္​ ​ဆက္​ဆံ​ရန္​သာ​ ​ႀကိုး​စား​ေန​ေၾကာင္း​၊​ ​ထို​အ​ေျခ​အ​ေန​သည္​သာ​ ​ျပည့္​၀​ေသာ​ ​လိင္​ေဖ်ာ္​ေျဖ​မႈ​ကို​ ​ေပး​နိုင္​မည္​ဟု​ ​မိ​မိ​မ​ယံု​ၾကည္​ေၾကာင္း​ ​မာ​သာ​က​ဆို​သ​ည္​။​

               ​မည္​သို့​ပင္​ျဖစ္​ေစ​ ​တစ္​က​မ႓ာ​လံုး​က​ ​လိင္​ဆက္​ဆံ​မႈ​ကို​ ​အ​ဓိ​ပၸါယ္​ဖြင့္​ဆို​ရာ​တြင္​ ​ထိုး​သြင္း​မႈ​ (Penetration)​ကို​သာ​ အ​ဓိ​က​ထား​ ​ေဖာ္​ျပ​ေန​ေၾကာင္း​လည္း​ ​မာ​သာ​က​ ​ဝန္​ခံ​ခဲ့​သည္​။​ ထို့​ေၾကာင့္​လည္း​ ​အ​မ်ိဳး​သား​မ်ား​သည္​ ​မိ​မိ​တို့​၏​ ​လိင္​အ​ဂၤါ​ ​ေထာင္​မတ္​ျခင္း​ ​မ​ရွိ​သည့္​အ​ခါ​ ​ေၾကာက္​စိတ္​မႊန္​ ​က​ေယာင္​ေျခာက္​ျခား​ ​ျဖစ္​မႈ​မ်ိဳး​ ​ၾကံု​ရ​တတ္​သ​လို​ ​ေဆး​ဝါး​မ်ား​ ​တ​ရား​လြန္​ ​သံုး​စြဲ​ကာ​ ​မာ​ရ​သြန္​ခ​ရီး​ရွည္​ႀကီး​ကို​ ​ျဖတ္​သန္း​ရ​န္​အ​တင္း​ႀကိုး​ပမ္း​ၾက​ေၾကာင္း​ ​မာ​သာ​က​ ​ေထာက္​ျပ​သြား​သည္​။​

             လူ​သား​မ်ား​ လိင္​ဆက္​ဆံ​ျခင္း​ ​အ​ေလ့​အ​ထ​တြင္​ ​အ​မ်ိဳး​သား​မ်ား​သည္​ ​မိ​မိ​ကိုယ္​ကိုယ္​ ​စက္​ကိ​ရိ​ယာ​ ​တစ္​ခု​လို​ ​ထင္​မွတ္​ေန​ျခင္း​မွာ​ ​မွား​ယြင္း​ေၾကာင္း​၊​ ​အ​လြန္​အ​က်ြံ​ ​ကာ​လ​ရွည္​ၾကာ​ေအာင္​ ​လိင္​ဆက္​ဆံ​နိုင္​ျခင္း​ ​မ​ရွိ​မည္​ကို​ ​စိုး​ရိမ္​ရန္​ ​မ​လို​ေၾကာင္း​လည္း​ ​သူ​မ​က​ဆို​သည္​။​ လိင္​ဆက္​ဆံ​ရာ​တြင္​ ​အ​မ်ိဳး​သား​ႏွင့္​ ​အ​မ်ိဳး​သ​မီး​ႏွစ္ဦး​ ​နား​လည္​မႈ​ရွိ​ရွိ​ ​ထိ​ေတြ႕​ဖ​လွယ္​ျခင္း​သည္​ ​လိင္​အ​ဂၤါ​ခ်င္း​ ​ထိုး​သြင္း​ထိ​ေတြ႕​မႈ​ ​မ​ပါဝင္​သည့္​တိုင္​ ​ျပည့္​ဝေသာ​ ​စိတ္​ေက်​နပ္​ ​သာ​ယာ​မႈ​ကို​ ​ေပး​စြမ္း​နိုင္​မည္​ျဖစ္​ေၾကာင္း​ ​မာ​သာ​က​ ​ေျပာ​ၾကား​သြား​သည္​။

            သို့ျဖစ္ပါေသာ္ေၾကာင့္ ​အ​မ်ိဳး​သား​မ်ား​သည္​ ​မိ​မိ​ကိုယ္​ကိုယ္​ ​စက္​ကိ​ရိ​ယာ​ ​တစ္​ခု​လို​ ​ထင္​မွတ္​ေန​ျခင္း​မွာ​ ​မွား​ယြင္း​ေၾကာင္း က်န္းမာေရးရွုေထာင့္မွ သိထားရန္လိုအပ္သျဖင့္ ဖိုမသဘာ၀အသိပညာေပးအေနႏွင့္ တင္ျပေရးသားရျခင္းသာ ျဖစ္ပါသည္.....

Ref:http://www.dailychilli.com/news/6123-sexpert-sex-isnt-just-about-penetration

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sex isn't just about penetration

By Lester Kong

Here's some good bedroom advice.

Couples should focus on developing their intimacy rather than being fixated on penetrative sex, sexual health experts tell The Daily Chilli.

Get this: not all sexual intercourse has to be about penetrative sex.

"So stop being overly obsessed about needing an erect penis to have sex," says Dr Martha Lee, founder of Eros Coaching, a popular sex counseling centre in Singapore.

"I don't believe you need to have an erect penis to have sex," she advises. "The definition of sex has always been about penetration. But why does the world have to end just because the penis cannot stand? You can still give sexual pleasure to your partner in a million and one ways and it is only limited by your imagination."

[centre] Dr Martha Lee and Dr Ismail Thambi during a recent sex talk in KL

Dr Lee, who holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality from San Francisco's Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality admits one of the biggest sex myths is that men think their bodies are machines.

"That is the biggest myth that I have to deal with. Some men panic when their penis doesn't work the way they expect it to. They want it to do what they tell it to do. If it doesn't, they panic," she said.

Rather than treating intercourse as a marathon, Dr Lee suggests men to "take a stroll through the park".

"It is proven that if you can climb three flights of stairs, you can still enjoy good sexual health.

"The problem comes when men think they can pop a pill and go run a marathon," she points out.

Echoing the same sentiment is acclaimed Malaysian reproductive and men's sexual health specialist, Dr Mohd Ismail Mohd Tambi. He thinks some men are overly concerned about being "firmer, harder, stronger" for their partners.

He reveals that most of his clients in his Jalan Ipoh clinic, whose ages range from 20-something to 50-something, think intimacy equals "into me".

"That is where the penetrative element is. They think that without 'into me', they cannot be intimate."

"I've got guys who cry because of ED (erectile dysfunction). When their mothers, their fathers pass away, they don't cry. When this (ED) happens, they cry. Somewhere along the line, we need to educate men," Dr Ismail concludes

Labels: Health-IV, Sexual Education-II